How DO you make dirty talking part of your sexual relationship?Many people think that it's what they say that makes the difference, but the truth is that it's actually how you say it.
Especially if you're quite inexperienced when it comes to sex chats, what usually happens is that you struggle to relax and express yourself.
Many people are too inhibited at first and find it hard to flirt with strangers.
Asking him what he needs from you proves you're open to changing things up.
Also, if you're talking dirty for the first time with your guy, this phrase is a good way to ease into conversation and gauge how naughty he's ready to get.
You don't want to sound phony, so only drop an f-bomb if it feels right to you, and make sure your language matches your level of arousal, becoming more explicit the closer you get to orgasm.
Sultry Sex Talk to Seduce Any Lover; Ian Kerner, Ph D, sex therapist and coauthor of The Big Fun Sexy Sex Book; Ruth Neustifter, Ph D, sexuality educator and author of The Nice Girl's Guide to Talking Dirty" title="" src="data:image/gif;base64, R0l GODlh AQABAIAAAAAAAP///y H5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" data-src="https://hips.hearstapps.com/cos.h-cdn.co/assets/cm/14/25/539faf793280a_-_cos-10-couple-in-bed-lgn-msc.jpg?But it’s not easy, and there’s no right or wrong way to do it because every relationship is different and every woman likes different things. "I love when in the middle of sex, a man just looks my body up and down and tells me I’m sexy. "Whatever we are doing, nothing makes a girl feel better than hearing that her man wants to keep doing it.There’s a fine line between dirty talk and disgusting talk, and it’s hard to find a balance. Don’t refer to my lady parts as “cunt.” Words like that are jarring. It strokes my ego, makes my feel all tingly, and immediately makes me want to do something to make him feel the same way." 3. "Once I was having sex with an ex and he was having trouble climaxing, and I asked, 'Are you okay? It was so rude and seemed like he could have been having sex with a blow-up doll and been just as satisfied. It means he’s satisfied, and as long as I like it too, it will make me want to keep going." 5. "No matter how sexy you try to make it sound, if we don’t know each other that well, I will not want to 'rawdog this' with you.By using dirty talk in more subtle, indirect ways, your man will never be quite sure what you mean and as a result he will end up constantly thinking about you and what you said. Secondly, talking dirty is incredibly hot and arousing to your man if you do it the right way.As you can probably guess this makes it great to use if you want to make sex hotter and more enjoyable than usual.Lastly, what talking dirty to your guy does is build sexual tension.