(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.
Dating a younger girl
Part II will be our "how-to" - that is, how to date younger women as an older (or younger) man. younger man / older woman couplings, you'll frequently be told, are a Bad Thing.
But travel the rest of the world, and this stigma is largely nonexistent.
If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
The following dos and don’ts should give you a better idea how to manage your position in your May-December relationship to your best advantage. One of the main reasons that she’s with you, and not with some stud of her own age, is that younger guys often don’t hit the emotional mark.
They may have the bodies of demigods, but they can also have the emotional maturity of a walnut. Show her how even-headed you are and how readily able you are to talk about your feelings in a calm and responsive manner.
Guys mature emotionally at a much slower rate than women and can easily get into their thirties with the emotional intelligence of a five-year-old. Show her that your maturity ensures that a relationship with you is a true emotional partnership, not a one-way street to toy town! You don’t get to your later years without learning a thing or two.
Definitions As usual, we need to get our definitions straight.
By “much younger women” I’m usually talking about VYW, which I define as women between the age of 18 and 23.
The exact ages and differentials vary, but each one reinforces one important point: Women get less valuable as they age, while men just get to enjoy the ride.
It’s every older guy’s dream to have a young, beautiful little thing hanging off his arm on the way to dinner or another social function.
Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.